Contemporary partnership patterns among the Zulu population: perceptions of University of KwaZulu-Natal students.
Loading...
Date
2019
Authors
Ngobese, Sindisiwe Precious.
Journal Title
Journal ISSN
Volume Title
Publisher
Abstract
The Zulu ethnic group is grappling with the contestations between tradition and modernity,
where it is hard to find families that are purely traditional or completely modernized. The
hybrid of the two is more prevalent, particularly in urban settings. Meekers (1992) asserts that
most African countries have not completely abandoned traditional practices despite
modernization taking place, hence marriage is one of the family formation types that persist
among Africans. Marriage among the Zulu population involves numerous compulsory stages
with negotiations being required for customary marriage. These stages consist of: Lobola,
which involves negotiations of the bride price; Umembeso, where the groom’s family brings
gifts for the bride's family; Umbondo, where the bride's family brings groceries to the groom’s
family; wedding/umshado, which is the actual wedding day; and Umabo, where the bride's
family gives gifts to the groom’s family after the wedding (Anarldo, 2011). All stages are very
significant and are all perceived as an integral part of the marriage as a union. In light of this,
this study explores the perception of the marriage process among the Zulu university students
who are living in a modern space but are also bound by some aspect of their culture. Not many
studies have explored how the marriage process may influence changes in partnership patterns,
including but not limited to cohabitation and staying single. This study utilizes a qualitative
approach to exploring partnership patterns within the selected sub-population. In-depth
interviews were conducted among twenty (20) postgraduate students from the age 25 and above
with an equal gender split. Findings revealed that marriage is not a priority for the Zulu
postgraduate students. Rather, the focus is on education and accumulation of resources before
marriage. The findings reveal the relationship between the marriage process and the
contemporary partnership pattern; that the Zulu process is a valued process that plays a huge
role in ensuring the couple becomes one unit. However, there are still negative connotations
attached to the process which inhibit marriage, leaving people with no choice but to pursue
other types of partnership patterns such as singleness, living apart together and cohabiting.
Although cohabitation is culturally unacceptable, the stigma is slowly eroding in that there are
circumstances where cohabiting is acceptable.
Description
Masters Degree. University of KwaZulu-Natal, Durban.